Ferocity of fear

Ferocity of Fear

Some times certain imageries evoke some revelations in us that gives answers to long sought after questions. I recently had such an experience.

Last day, while I was going back home after my evening stroll, I saw an acquaintance of mine pelting stone at an innocuous stray dog. Upon enquiry, he said that he was afraid the dog would bite him. From where I was looking, the dog was just walking away from him minding its own business. The person’s unrealistic fear prompted him to harm the animal.

While brooding on the topic, it started making sense to me. It is evident that the  violence in the world is the result of fear in the heart of human kind. We are so insecure that our ‘fight or flight‘ instinct kicks in. More often than not, we prefer to fight, which result in massive violence.

Fear and Violence

Behavioral science points out that fear is the root of all tensions. The insecurity within us prompts us to act violently and hurt others in our defense. In a few, it can develop into a personality dissorder.

The best example for this is Adolf Hitler. Psychologists like Walter C. Langer and Erich Fromm attribute Hitler’s demonic acts of violence and genocide as the product of an insecure childhood. Brought up by an abusive father, Hitler was tormented by the deaths of his four siblings and his protective mother. His mistrust and fear of the society triggered the atrocious acts.

Biology behind

Zoologists argue that even though man has migrated from the middle of the food chain to the top of it during the last 10,000 years, our instincts are still that of a prey. Thus we are eternally afraid of the world around us.

While  in other animals the fear causes fleeing or locking horns for self-defense, with humans it’s a different story. His superior intellect has empowered him to forge weapons of mass destruction that can annihilate the world in a matter of seconds.

Throughout history, we can find evidence for this. From the mass extinction of mega fauna in the stone age to world wars in the twentieth century has nothing but the insecurity of humankind to blame.

Fear a Necessity?

Human society is built on fear. Fear created hierarchies, rule of law, military and police forces and so on. Still with all these precautions people are still afraid. Employers are afraid of employees and vice versa, Leaders afraid of followers, poor afraid of the rich, the affluent afraid of the commoners and so forth.

Many scholars attribute the instinct as the reason for survival of human race. In his book, ‘The Gift of fear‘, Gavin de Becker educates the reader on how to trust and interpret their fear to overcome dangerous situations. He cites many cases from his personal experience with his clients where fear has saved their lives.

Nevertheless, he points out that ‘True fear is a gift. Unwarranted fear is a curse‘. This unwarranted fear is something to be avoided if we wish peace and freedom. (You can read more on the topic in my blog ‘Prisons in mind‘)

“Fearlessness is the first requisite of spirituality. Cowards can never be moral.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

A holistic medicine for fear

Believe it or not, it is not instinctual for us to be brave. It has to be cultivated. Only superior beings can be truly courageous.

Once Alexander the Great heard of a an old saint who lived near the river. When the summons of the great king failed to bring the saint to his court, Alexander himself went to his ancient hut. The sage was sunbathing at the time. Expecting some respect from the old man, Alexander announced who he was and what great deeds he had accomplished. After listening intently to his rants, the sage stoically replied, ‘To the world you may be a great king, but to me you are the fellow who blocks the sunlight. Please move!’

The way of the heart is the way of courage. Whereas the calculating and reasoning mind is afraid of everything.

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

1 John 4:18

Ancient wisdom proclaims love as the cure for fear and violence. To be non-violent, the heart should be given prominence over brain.

Following the heart

When a person reverberates with his very being, he transcends all insecurities. The essence of our being is nothing but love. Hence, to live in love is to live in courage.

It is natural to underestimate the power of love.  But those who have come under its influence undoubtedly vouch for it. Love breaks boundaries and fosters trust. The trust in turn makes fear irrelevant. So to conquer fear we should first learn the language of love.

Coming to think of it, the real opposite of love is fear. In fear one doubts, in love one trusts. In fear one becomes closed, in love one opens. In fear one shrinks, in love one expands.

To escape the ferocious clutches of fear, let us open ourselves and expand in love.

I will be happy to hear from you. Please post your opinions on the comment box below

20 comments

  1. “In fear one doubts, in love one trusts. In fear one becomes closed, in love one opens. In fear one shrinks, in love one expands.’ Nicely put !!

    But do you think that love is not an answer to every form of fear ? For instance, we secure our doors at night due to fear of burglars. How can we replace that fear with love ? We have fear of venturing to our roads with our vehicles because of the rash driving. How can we use love to overcome that fear ?

    Love to have your thoughts on the same.

    • Love as the ‘attitude of mind’ which takes away our insecurities is the focus here. Indeed it would be a folly to love a burglar in the romantic sense inorder to keep your door unlocked. But attitude of love, like the fragrance of a flower,where you become love itself will transcend fear by looking at the big picture.
      In the example that you pointed out, at first we fear the traffic, but ultimately with experience we transcend it and even start loving the prospect of a long drive even though we are well aware of the risks involved.
      Love, i believe, is the holistic medicine that cures all our insecurities, which in turn is the root of all fear. The topic needs much debate. But unfortunately logic loses is sharp edge when it comes to cracking the mysteries of love.

    • Feel free to express your opinions. Kindly refrain from racist and hate filled messages. As for debate, i am not really into it. But you surely can contradict and criticize my views in the post.

  2. I wonder if we could broadly say that Republicans are more fearful than Democrats? I feel that this is true. They seem to fear anything that they can’t control or that doesn’t match them and their world view – other cultures, different sexual orientations, the natural world…

    • Thank you. Hoping to change the social perspective on violence. Before it was considered as a mark of bravery and Masculinity. But today it is seen as the prerogative of cowards.

  3. Beautiful writing/thinking! I wonder if violence is also a result of frustration (a close relative of fear); an unhelpful expression of our experience of long-term powerlessness/voicelessness?

    • It indeed can be. Our science has just started to understand about human emotions. The theories formulated are not foolproof. May be in recent future we can have a better understanding. Thank you for your interest in the blog. Really appreciate the comment too.

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